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<blockquote><div class="quotetitle">Quote from <a class="profile-link highlight-default" href="https://stoicplanet.com/user/10">Ocean</a> on February 9, 2025, 12:04 pm</div>Stoicism doesn’t aim to stop you from feeling emotions, and it’s not about self-hypnosis. Instead, it helps you understand and process your emotions so they don’t control you. For example, losing a job might naturally make you feel sad, but if you examine it through a Stoic perspective, you’ll see that it doesn’t truly harm you. Your worth isn’t tied to a job, and the situation is beyond your control. Over time, practicing Stoicism helps you become less shaken by external events and move toward ataraxia—a state of inner peace and tranquility.
That said, this isn’t easy, and it takes practice. The goal of Stoicism isn’t to become numb or emotionless but to become wise. When you gain wisdom, many things that used to upset you will stop bothering you. Think about when you were a child—you might have thrown a tantrum over not getting ice cream for dinner. Now that you’re older, those things seem trivial. You didn’t lose your emotions; you just grew wiser. Stoicism works the same way—it helps you see what truly matters so you can focus on what you can control and let go of what you can’t.</blockquote>

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